Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Our Engagement Story

Unbeknownst to me, during the weeks preceding Stephen's last visit, he had been secretly corresponding with my parents, perfectly planning every detail of our engagement by asking permission to propose, getting my ring size, arranging a short trip to Washington D.C. to purchase my ring before he arrived in Virginia, and making reservations for our dinner at an extremely fancy restaurant.

I thought it was a very unexpected and wonderful treat when I learned that Stephen was taking me to Monticello on the first day of his visit. The hour and a half drive to the plantation was blissfully spent simply talking to the man I adore so much!
When we arrived at Monticello, we strolled the grounds and toured the house before Stephen led me to a quiet wooded area far behind Monticello overlooking the town and mountains in the distance. It seemed strange when Stephen told me to put down the camera I had been carrying around, but before I had much time to think about his request, he got down on one knee!
I was so shocked that he was proposing. He told me the sweetest things my ears have ever heard and asked me to marry him! He later had to tell me what he said again because at the time of his proposal I was so happy that I couldn't even fully enjoy his precious words to me. The moment was far too special to even attempt to share here.

My ring is absolutely stunning. I have never seen a diamond that sparkles so much. We had not even discussed engagement rings, so I was so surprised and thrilled when I saw that he bought the exact classic, traditional ring I have always wanted! Everything he does for me is top-notch. He makes me feel so treasured.
Stephen had made dinner reservations for us at The Old Mill Room at The Boar's Head Inn. We were seated at the romantic table near the fire. It was the nicest restaurant I have ever been to and will be a memory I treasure forever.
Later that evening, we were greeted by a multitude of balloons and a very happy family welcoming us home!

"Since ancient times no one has heard, no ear has perceived, no eye has seen any God besides You, who acts on behalf of those who wait for Him." Isaiah 64:4

29 comments:

Shani said...

Thank you for sharing this! It is a day that you will never forget I am sure and I loved reading about it! Your ring is BEAUTIFUL. . . Congratulations!

Elizabeth said...

O my goodness what a delightful story Meredith...... I am so very happy for you. I can't even express my happiness for you both. All I can say is may the Lord be praised.....

So much love...........

Elizabeth said...

P.S. Your ring is simply STUNNING!!!! :)

Missy said...

I'm so happy for you Meredith! I love your ring and your story!! :)

memories-in-motion said...

Meredith & Family,
We are absolutely delighted to hear your incredible news! We will be praying for you both during this sweet season of growing together in Christ and preparing for your wedding day! Glory to God for His indescribable gifts!!

In His Love and ours,
The Chavis Family

Asia said...

That is very awesome, again I am so happy for you and your future husband to be.

Emily said...

Thank you for sharing that sweet story, Meredith! I'm so happy for you and Stephen! Your ring is absolutely beautiful! :D

Marie said...

I am overjoyed by your lovely engagement story. Stephen is such a romantic and charming man Meredith. I just loved reading all the wonderful details. What a delight. Thanks so much for sharing it with us.
I love you dear friend.
Marie

Annabee93 said...

Meredith,
I am SO excited for Stephen and you!:) What a wonderful time you will have planing your wedding.:)

Jennifer said...

beautiful ring, so simple and classic. can't believe you kept your courtship a secret here for so long!

Katheryn said...

As a mom to 4 girls this story is so encouraging. I am so excited for them to experience your joy in courtship. I was not so blessed, but so thankful that I can do that for my girls. Thank you for sharing. Your ring is absolutely stunning. This is a memory you will cherish forever. I know I still remember that feeling of when my husband proposed, I remember everything. The best thing is, I still get that sweet butterfly feeling even now, everytime he walks in the door from work. God bless.

Joshua and Stephanie said...

Awwww guys are so romantic...they always know exactly what will make their girl feel like a princess! I know that Joshua asked me to marry him in the most perfect way and surprised me with how much he had picked up on what would make the day so special to me!!! Oh, Meredith I am so happy for you!

Andrea said...

I have never commented on here before but I have to say "Awww!". What a blessed women you are. The ring is gorgeous. I love Tiffany's! I am so happy for you.

Andrea said...

I have never commented on here before but I have to say "Awww!". What a blessed women you are. The ring is gorgeous. I love Tiffany's! I am so happy for you.

Meghan said...

How sweet!! The ring is stunning.

Rachel and Sarah said...

Wow! Beautiful ring! I love a solitaire for an engagement ring! :) How blessed you are that Stephen obviously knows your taste and your style, even though you hadn't even talked about the ring!
That shows a great connection between you two! :)
Blessings! -Rachel

Grace said...

So glad to finally hear the proposal story! I love how we both were so blessed to get such romantic men! I rejoice with you in your engagement!

Chelsea said...

I THOROUGHLY enjoyed reading your engagement story!!!! Stephen sounds so sweet and thoughful...just the type of man you deserve! I am so very happy for you, you look SO happy in your pictures, and so does Stephen! (He is very handsome, by the way!) Your ring is GORGEOUS!!! and I've never known anyone to have a ring from Tifffany's!!!! I know you are thrilled, and you must have so much going on!!! I'm so excited to hear all the details, I'm SOOO happy for you both!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!

Ayla said...

What a beautiful fairy-tale like story! Congrats to you both! I resonated so much with your idea that women need not date a lot of men to find the "one" you simply need to focus on being a good wife and mother and those shinning qualities will call the right man to you. I feel so lucky to have found a husband myself who honors me as a wife and mother and knows my true calling and has never pushed nor expected me to work outside our home. I wish more young women could follow your wonderful example in honoring God, your parents, your fiancee and yourself. Blessings!

Help Meet in the Making said...

What a perfect engagement story! He did a good job picking out your ring too! It's beautiful!

Connie Leis said...

Thanks for sharing your engagement story! How sweet and romantic! I love your ring! The both of you look so radiant in the pictures. I pray that this time of engagement is a happy time for the both of you and your families! God has truly blessed each of you with each other!
Connie Leis

Anonymous said...

Sounds like a dream come true! We are so happy for you!

Mrs. Anita Kilpatrick for the whole Kilpatrick Family

Morgan said...

Congratulations Meredith! I am so happy for you! Thank you for the godly example you have been to us younger girls as a daughter "striving to serve at home".
-Morgan

Samantha said...

Thank you so much for sharing such a beautiful story. Your story, and your blog, has inspired me so much to keep putting faith in God, in the area of my future husband.
Congratulations! (:

-Samantha

Ali Ann said...

Congratulations Meredith! I'm so happy for you and Stephen. You two make such a beautiful couple! Your ring is absolutely BEAUTIFUL!

Your courtship story and your blog have inspired me to put my trust in God, when it comes to my Prince Charming.

Love the pictures, by the way!

In His unfailing love,
Ali Ann

arunnerlearningtofly said...

oh, sorry! i must be writing under my husband's blog account (arunnerlearningtofly). this is Lizzy! :)

arunnerlearningtofly said...

Meredith!!!!!!! i'm speechless....with tears threatening to well up in my eyes and blur what i'm writing, I say CONGRATULATIONS!!! you are a precious woman of God and that sweet boy of yours is getting quite a treasure with YOU as his soon-to-be lifetime confidant, supporter, companion, and friend. I will be praying for you two as you embark on this beautiful journey together! so, so, SO happy for you, dear Meredith!!!! yay!

Erin said...

Wow, what a beautiful story! Congratulations.

Suzette said...

What a wonderful love story! I found your blog through a series of clicking through a bunch of blogs that are somehow connected to each other (I guess that's called blog-hopping??). Anyway... I just had to tell you that I was so excited to find that you're from Virginia because I am, too!! And I saw the pic of you and your dad on the sidebar -- GO DUKE!! Your courtship story is so sweet and encouraging; you can read the short version of mine on my blog. Glad to meet you!! And congrats on getting married!! =)