Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Sheridan's Flower Girl Dress

{Entry Written by Mama}
Ever since Meredith first learned, almost 4 years ago, that she would finally have the sister she had prayed for, she has said that she wanted Sheridan to be her flower girl, should Meredith marry one day.

What a special blessing that Meredith's wedding is occurring when Sheridan is at the perfect age to be absolutely thrilled to be a flower girl. Although normally quiet in public, Sheridan will tell complete strangers that she's going to be a flower girl. When she discusses the upcoming wedding, she usually says, "At Meredith and my wedding...." We have to remind her that really just Meredith is marrying Stephen and that she will continue to live with us for a long time!

As I began to search for a flower girl dress for Sheridan, I found that the ones I most liked were way out of our wedding budget so I began to study them closely and wonder if I might be able to make one myself. While pricing fabric, lace, sequins, pearls, and ribbon, I quickly understood why the dresses I liked were so expensive.

Inspired by Meredith's wedding dress story, I wondered if I might find a wedding dress at a thrift store and be able to use the fabric and laces to make an inexpensive replica of the flower girl dresses that looked so special online.

If anyone ever followed me around a thrift store, they would surely assume I was not completely sane as I often, when finding just the exact thing I was hoping for, thank the Lord out loud as if He were standing right next to me. Such was the case when I found the most beautifully embellished, satin wedding dress that could be used for creating a flower girl dress for Sheridan. It was $34.99 - not too big of an expense should the project be a flop.
Since the dress was a women's size 12, there was plenty of fabric to work with. I figured it would be easier to keep the hem line and other tailored angles in tact, so I cut the various pieces of the gown down to the size of one of Sheridan's sundresses that I used as a guideline. The wedding dress had such beautiful details in the covered buttons and exquisite sequins, lace, and beads so I tried to preserve them when reconstructing the dress.
The final stitches were made today as I tried to figure out how to "bustle" the train so Sheridan can run around at the reception.
I'm not known for quality sewing skills so I'm sure Sheridan will be leaving a trail of pearls behind which were not securely reattached during the reconstruction. I just hope she'll fair better than Oliver, Sullivan, and Harrison who went with Meredith to our area's annual Civil War Ball a couple of years ago. They left in Civil War Soldier costumes made lovingly (not skillfully) by their mother and returned as those wounded in battle with rips in shoulder seams and, worst of all, splits clear through in rear pants seams!

12 comments:

Santana Vitales (Hey That's Me!) said...

The dress on her is Darling!!!!
Blessings!!!

Marie said...

I have never seen such a BEAUTIFUL flower girl dress as this. It is absolutely exquisite Mrs. Alexander, I encourage you to not stop your excellent seamstress abilities for they are excellent.

I remember being a flower girl and I have such warm memories of being made beautiful for the bride and feeling her love for my help! I can just feel little sheridan's excitement and anticipation.

Love
~ Marie

Clara said...

What an accomplishment, Mrs Alexander! I can imagine resizing a gown like that would be very difficult, but it looks like you did a wonderful job of it! :) Sheridan looks thrilled, and the dress is beautiful! :)

Ashleigh said...

This is SO adorable!! She looks like a little bride. You did an amazing job on this project!

Alice said...

Meredith, this dress is simply beautiful! I do not believe your mom is being quite honest when she says that her sewing skills aren't that great... Sheridan truly looks like a little princess!
Can't wait to read another wedding-related post!
I feel so very blessed and encouraged by your words, your wisdom and your faith, Meredith.

Many Blessings,
Alice

Jamie said...

The dress is beautiful! Praise the Lord indeed! I love how he gives us the desires of our hearts! Sheridan looks very happy in it. :D

Your little sister in Christ,
Jamie

Asia said...

awww so cute

Help Meet in the Making said...

She is SO adorable! You did a wonderful job! She is going to be a beautiful flower girl!!

Olivia said...

How precious she looks in her beautiful dress!
What a wonderful job you did Mrs. Alexander! My family and I too, love to be thrifty, and second hand stores are a delight to peruse. Finding the perfect item at a reduced price is like a smile from heaven, especially when it is an answer to prayer.
Praying for you all as that special day approaches.
In Him,
Olivia

Emily N. said...

What a beautiful flower girl she is going to be! I love her dress, Mrs. Joy. I think you did a wonderful job resizing it down to her size. She is simply adorable in her dress and she really looks like a princess. :)

amulbunny's random thoughts said...

You can add a loop of trim on the train and have a button on the side of the dress so Sheridan can have the train raised during the reception. Just find some trim that mimics the dress and voila you've got a solution.

Chelsea said...

Such a sweet dress! Very beautiful.